Intimacy: A Dialectical Study

Intimacy: A Dialectical Study

By: Christopher Lauer (author)Paperback

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An important contribution to the burgeoning field of the ethics of recognition, this book examines the contradictions inherent in the very concept of intimacy. Working with a wide variety of philosophical and literary sources, it warns against measuring our relationships against ideal standards, since there is no consummate form of intimacy. After analyzing ten major ways that we aim to establish intimacy with one another, including gift-giving, touching, and fetishes, the book concludes that each fails on its own terms, since intimacy wants something that is impossible. The very concept of intimacy is a superlative one; it aims not just for closeness, but for a closeness beyond closeness. Nevertheless, far from a pessimistic diagnosis of the human condition, this is a meditation on how to live intimately in a world in which intimacy is impossible. Rather than contenting itself with a deconstructive approach, it proposes to treat intimacy dialectically. For all its contradictions, it shows intimacy is central to how we understand ourselves and our relations to others.

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Christopher Lauer is Assistant Professor of Philosophy at University of Hawai'i at Hilo, USA.


Introduction Intimacy and Feeling Dialectics Limitations of dialectics Note on Terminology Chapter 1: The Gift Initiation Appeal and Delay Absenting A Measured Gift: Lysias's Speech Chapter 2: Touching Touching as shared experience Proportion The myth of the inmost touch The wound Chapter 3: The Heartbeat Systole and diastole Indifference and longing Chapter 4: The Between God and the space between The rupture Accessibility Chapter 5: The Fetish The interest The fetishized body The promise Chapter 6: Embedding The secret The third The neutralized third: gossip The generalized third: irony Fraudulence Chapter 7: Conflict The dismissal The dispute Violence Debate Chapter 8: The Melee Consumption, destruction, and waste Laughter Frenzy Millenarianism Chapter 9: The Future The test The commitment Planning Identification Anticipatory mourning Chapter 10: Mourning Gathering and retraction Haunting Singularity Afterward Bibliography Notes

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  • publication date: 25/02/2016
  • ISBN13: 9781474226264
  • Format: Paperback
  • Number Of Pages: 224
  • ID: 9781474226264
  • weight: 393
  • ISBN10: 1474226264

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