What We Talk About When We Talk About Rape
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What We Talk About When We Talk About Rape

What We Talk About When We Talk About Rape

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Sohaila Abdulali (Author)  

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When we talk about victims of rape, we say 'it could be your mother or sister or daughter'. We rarely say 'the rapist might be your father or brother or son'. Novelist and rape survivor, Sohaila Abdulali calls for franker conversation about rape. At once unblinking and subtle, she tackles the complexities of sexual violence head-on, rightly criticizing simplistic shibboleths and asking insightful questions such as whether the 'yes means yes and no means no' model adequately accounts for a woman who 'chooses' to be raped over being killed or a woman who 'gives in' to a man who holds power in her professional world. She also calls attention to the 'institutional scaffolding' that 'allows abuse to flourish' e.g. the family, political and economic arrangements, and workplaces that encourage women to fit into systems that are ultimately disempowering. As the #MeToo and #TimesUp movements blow open the topic of sexual assault and rape, What We Talk About When We Talk About Rape is a brilliant and entirely original contribution to our understanding. Drawing on her own experience (Abdulali was gang-raped as a teenager in Mumbai), her research, her work with hundreds of survivors as the head of a rape crisis centre, and three decades of grappling with the issue as a feminist intellectual and writer, Abdulali examines our contemporary discourse about rape. She interviews survivors whose personal stories of hard-won strength, humour, and wisdom collectively tell the larger story of how societies may begin to heal.
Sohaila Abdulali was born in Mumbai, moved to the United States with her family when she was a teenager. She has a BA from Brandeis University in economics and sociology and an MA from Stanford University in communication. She is the author of two novels - The Madwoman of Jogare and Year of the Tiger - as well as children's books and short stories. She lives in New York with her family.What We Talk About When We Talk About Rape was published simultaneously on four continents by publishers in the UK, Australia and New Zealand, India, and the US and Canada. It is also available in Dutch, Korean, Spanish and Turkish editions.It is a popular assigned text for Gender Studies and other students worldwide: 'I honestly loved Abdulali's book,' says one student at the University of New Hampshire, 'it didn't even feel like I was reading a book for class. It felt like I was having an informative and educational talk with one of my friends about a very important issue'.
  • Contributor: Sohaila Abdulali
  • Imprint: Myriad Editions
  • ISBN13: 9781912408061
  • Number of Pages: 240
  • Packaged Dimensions: 129x198mm
  • Format: Paperback
  • Publisher: Myriad Editions
  • Release Date: 2018-10-25
  • Binding: Paperback / softback
  • Biography: Sohaila Abdulali was born in Mumbai, moved to the United States with her family when she was a teenager. She has a BA from Brandeis University in economics and sociology and an MA from Stanford University in communication. She is the author of two novels - The Madwoman of Jogare and Year of the Tiger - as well as children's books and short stories. She lives in New York with her family.What We Talk About When We Talk About Rape was published simultaneously on four continents by publishers in the UK, Australia and New Zealand, India, and the US and Canada. It is also available in Dutch, Korean, Spanish and Turkish editions.It is a popular assigned text for Gender Studies and other students worldwide: 'I honestly loved Abdulali's book,' says one student at the University of New Hampshire, 'it didn't even feel like I was reading a book for class. It felt like I was having an informative and educational talk with one of my friends about a very important issue'.

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