When Kids Call the Shots: How to Seize Control from Your Darling Bully - and Enjoy Being a Parent Again (Special ed.)

When Kids Call the Shots: How to Seize Control from Your Darling Bully - and Enjoy Being a Parent Again (Special ed.)

By: Sean Grover (author)Paperback

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Rebellious, entitled, disrespectful, many kids pummel their parents with demands, and boss them around with impunity. Experts might label them "difficult" and advise how to "fix" them. But parenting struggles rarely originate from just one side. Instead, they erupt at the volatile intersection of a child's personality with a parent's own insecurities and behaviors. Fixing the child requires fixing yourself.In When Kids Call the Shots, therapist and parenting expert Sean Grover untangles the forces driving family dysfunction, and helps parents assume leadership roles. With a liberating message and perceptive advice, the book explores: Three common bullying styles (defiant, manipulative, anxious) used by kidsParenting styles (guilt-prone, anxiety-fueled, fix-everything) that contribute to power imbalancesCritical testing periods in a child's developmentCoping mechanisms that backfirePersonalized plans for calmly exerting authority inany scenario Caving in to tantrums and threats breeds more of the same. Learn to stop the cycle of abusive behavior and make parenting a pleasure again.

About Author

Sean Grover has worked in child development and adult psychotherapy for 20 years, and maintains one of the largest private group therapy practices in the U.S. He has been quoted in Newsweek, New York Magazine, NPR, and elsewhere about parent-child relationships.


CONTENTS Acknowledgments Introduction 1 Escape the Suffering Parents Club 2 What Happened to My Sweet, Adorable Child? 3 How We Become Our Kids' Victims-and Strategies to Prevent Parent Burnout 4 Understanding Your Kid's Bullying Behavior Style 5 Your Parenting Style-and How Good Parents Fall into Bad Habits 6 Tools to Give You Both Just the Right Amount of Power 7 How to Assemble Your Anti-Bullying Support Team 8 Navigating the Seven Parenting Crises That Can Trigger Bullying Index About the Author

Product Details

  • ISBN13: 9780814436004
  • Format: Paperback
  • Number Of Pages: 224
  • ID: 9780814436004
  • weight: 1
  • ISBN10: 0814436005
  • edition: Special ed.

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